A little wedding planning advice from Jaime King


OK so this just happened and I am beyond excited.  Today (it’s a Sunday here in Australia), just sitting on the couch looking through Instagram and I see a beautiful post from the ever delightful Jaime King, so I decided to write a comment and ask if I could interview for my little wedding blog.

Not expecting a reply but less than 20 minutes later i get a notification about a reply from Jaime King.  Well you could just pick me up off the floor. This is no ordinary comment but a heartfelt and genuine quote.

It is rare for a celebrity to take the time out of the their busy schedule and family time to comment to fans and also to provide advice for free.

I agree with everything thing Jaime has suggested especially around how a wedding is a celebration.  In my previous blog I talked about how you need to remember why you are getting married.  A wedding is for one day however you should be wanting a marriage that lasts a lifetime.

Wedding advice from Jaime King

“Savor every moment, relax and enjoy, don’t be pressured into doing or inviting anyone that doesn’t uplift you, no matter what tradition states.  It is a day of your dreams becoming reality, you don’t need a lot of money to make something beautiful. 

Choose a place that is naturally gorgeous, with gardens, lake or the sea, or natural flora around to save on flowers etc.

A candy bar is an easy fun way for take home gifts.  buffet, buffet, buffet.  Karaoke machine!!!  The more simple the better

And most importantly a wedding is a celebration of the spiritual union, it is sacred, not an obligation to please others.

Make a list of what is most important to you to spend on and where you can save.  And if you feel cornered by any people pleasing patterns, elope! LOL!!”

Until next time

Happy planning everyone

xo Christine

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5 signs you are becoming a BRIDEZILLA


Are you a Bridezilla?

Are you a Bridezilla?

Do you get the sneaky suspicion you are becoming a Bridezilla?

Wedding planning is hard and stressful and can make the nicest, calmest bride to be into a Bridezilla.

Here are five signs you may be a Bridezilla.  If any of these ring true, take a step back and reflect on why you are planning the wedding.

1.  Are your friends and family avoiding you?

The number of catch ups are dwindling.  It maybe you are talking too much about the wedding. Now we do need to face the facts that not everyone will be a thrilled as you about your upcoming wedding and you do need to ensure that you remember there are other important such as birthdays that will still occur.  Take some time out of your wedding planning and reconnect with your friends and family.  You may also consider having a wedding planning free weekend away your with fiancée.

2. Whine, wine, wine

No this is not a spelling mistake.  When you are planning your wedding are you

a. whining and

b. reaching for the wine?

It is time to regroup and enjoy the planning process.  Your wedding day goes by so quickly so the planning process should be an enjoyable time.

3. You have had a fallen out with your bridesmaid

You have sent an email 10 minutes ago and they have not responded.

This is time is also stressful for the bridal party especially bridesmaids.  When you choose your bridal party also make sure you outline any expectations.  I am not saying lay down the rules but it is important that you let them know if they will have any expenses (will they need to pay for their dress, hair, make up, etc).  This will ensure that your bridal party can start saving and will help eliminate any undue stress.

4. You have a checklist for your checklist

I am a huge fan of the checklist and I get great satisfaction from crossing off an item on the list. However you can overdo the checklist and make your wedding be a more like a drill team.

5. Your budget is out of control

You now want a firework display as you leave and you will get it, no matter what.

Your wedding day is to share your love story with your family and friends.  Will they remember the firework display, maybe but you can still have the wedding of your dreams within your budget.  When planning your wedding stick to your budget, otherwise you will find yourself stressing even more about where you will find the money you don’t have or you will start go without (remember those all important catch ups with friends and family) to find the added money.

Just as Planned has created the perfect wedding day checklist and I want to share it with you for FREE

 

If you find yourself still stressed and need some assistance.

Are you at the early stage of planning a wedding or in count down mode for the big day?

Are you worried that your wedding day will turn out badly or you have missed an important detail?

Just as Planned now offers a 45 minute consultant to help you with all of your wedding planning needs.

For only $49.95 you will receive a 45 minute consultant and $50 worth of wedding planning tools.

To book fill in our contact form below 

 

 

Submit your wedding to Just as Planned


At Just as Planned we love a good wedding and we would love to feature yours.  We love all wedding, small, large, cute, quirky and of course ones with lots of bling.

If you would love to share your wedding, simply send us the following information to justasplannedau@gmail.com

1. A zip file of your photos.  Photos should be a mix of people shots and the details such as the rings, flowers, cake, invitations, favours and should tell your wedding day story.

2. Provide us with a list of credits of your vendors.  If you can provide us with their business name and contact such as website, Facebook page and phone number that would be great as Just as Planned is all about sharing the love and showcasing fabulous wedding providers.

3. Tell your story. There is no need to write a huge essay as sometimes a photo speaks volumes. Here are a few questions to help you get started.

  1. Tell us a little about the proposal?
  2. What was the inspiration behind your wedding theme?
  3. What was your favorite moment of the day (apart from becoming husband and wife of course! or Wife and Wife, or Husband and Husband!)
  4. Was there any family or religious traditions incorporated into your day?
  5. What does marriage mean to you?
  6. Talk to us about your dress, where is it from and why it was the perfect dress.
  7. Any funny stories in the lead up to or on the day?
  8. Advice for other couples planning a wedding?

If this sounds like you, send an introduction about the proposal to justasplannedua@gmail.com